There were so many times in my life when I measure God's love for me based on the things that He blessed me with or the things that He will do for me. And if God doesn't help me get out of this problem, He must not love me.
I often push God away when pain come into my life. I'm confident that I'm not the only one. On the other hand, Sadrach, Meschach and Abednego had an utmost confidence in God that He will deliver them and save them from the fiery furnace. But they know if they died, They still serve Him and know that God loves them.
The thing is, God is always good. Always. He is perfect, so all that He does is perfect regardless of what we think.